This pandemic brought me a lot of lessons, at least now I know that émi gan gan as a person, being busy is not an excuse for my lack of responses to chats (not that I pride in it), it's a bad habit I'm trying to overcome, but there is one thing that I really got. You know how people tend to say "Forgiveness is not easy," people say it a lot, at least I often hear people say it, but for the first time in my growing developing life, I got to experience this thing first hand. Sooooo story story...
Once upon a time, there was a young girl, (who happens to be me "TheErinOjo"), who got into an argument with 2 of her friends
*now pause, dear gist lover like me, I am not a preacher of war, I am Peace, Peace is me, so we don't throw punches here* Ehn! ehn! so back to the story.
This young damsel (as per I have to hype myself) got into an argument with 2 of her friends, she was pissed, angry, hurt (borrow me English) and all forms of anything anger. Yada Yada Yada, she had one massive anger outburst to one of the friends, then decided that this can't be happening amongst friends especially adults (yur yur I am a full-fledged adult). So these 3 friends called themselves together TALKED not ARGUED and made amends.
*pause again, let me tell you something about me if I say I forgive you, I do, as per I am very lazy to be angry, so I will forgive, I legit don't have energy, also whether or not you ask for forgiveness (as per say sorry) I'll forget I was angry so at the end of the day, I don't know how to be angry, issnor in my gene* Again back to the story
So the 3 friends talked and apologised to each other and life was good (LG), like 2 days later Miss. Rona sent us packing to our individual fathers' houses, and things went off like that. So this young girl (our main character which is me) noticed some off-off behaviour but as per " mature adult" I was forming macho and didn't address it
*pause again; dear lovelies, it's not safe to assume something, bottle it up and deceive yourself that you're an adult, it will end in premium disappointment (at yourself)* Back to the story
Abi should I continue next week? I like the yeye suspense
So having not addressed the off-off behaviour assumption, she continued living her happy life, until one bright sunny day (let me not lie, I can't remember the weather), baby girl ("TheErinOjo", just in case you've forgotten it's a true-life story) received a well addressed spicy anonymous message, and it was glaring who had sent it, ahhhh! anger was clearly an understatement, she was beyond furious, thirsty for revenge.
*pause again; Sorry you hear, but if I don't pause you, who will?🤷 I sha came to drop a fun fact about me, "I understand English", that statement may seem very basic, like durrr, but no I don't mean it in a plain way, I mean I am good with words and if well triggered, it might be catastrophic hot tears. I like to tell myself "I have a Holy Spirit controlled temperament" (check out Tim Lahaye's book on that) because, on a high-key, I know without the help of the Holy Spirit, words well packaged can slice the self-esteem of anyone.* So back to the story
See you next week 😉😉
And listen to Peace by Bethel Music
1 Comments
What did you think resulted in all this anger? and as a good Christian child have you personally gone to speak to this your friend (that is if you are still one) to know what exactly happened. And I hope you have hatched it out because resentment is a powerful tool of the devil oluwapamilerinayo.
ReplyDeleteI have been enjoying your articles tho. Keep up the good work of God